I m28 was dating f27. We were together for 3 years, when we met her son was 2 years old and I took up my fatherly role a responsibilities very well I’d like to think.
She moved back to her hometown after we spent 3 years in my home country where we Met.
She moved back to apparently get her life in order, get into work, utilise the education system her country can offer her and our boy. She worried I would not get work on time she would wait rather too long for me to come. I was worried of this too but kept my consistency job hunting and got it right fortunately. I managed to land a job in her birth city with such great pay and I’m really grateful! I wanted to share the news with my partner only for her to dismiss me and act a bit disappointed via video call. She was moving her eyes really quickly on the phone too and I asked her what are you doing on that end you look like you stressing about something. And she replied no I was just reading something on Reddit. I had an off feeling and went on her profile only to realise she had confessed about being in love with her online student she’s been teaching for less than 3 months. She made a post labelled something about my whoremones towards my student and found out she went out of her way the day I organised Accomedation for her coz she had none she had left her moms place after a fall out middle of the night and whilst I organised accommodation and gave her an offer too for a friend of mine to help her out in her home town and no she she chose to go stay at this students becaue she had her second class of the day with him and because she was in a housing crises she thought it’s a good idea to ask to do the class in person because she knew what she was doing and I should trust her. I gave her my trust only to find out how she felt so in love with him because he was kind, calm and quiet and the words used were the exact things she wrote in her diary about me when we first started dating and I feel like she’s in a forever cycle of trying to leach on to the first thing that gives her stability coz I paid our rent and covered most expenses due to her not having much work when we stayed together those 3 years and as soon as she got an opportunity to latch on to someone else she tried it. Mind you this is someone going through a divorce that she’s going for, she only heard his side of this divorce and I worry she’s pulling herself into toxic spaces again after we spoke about committing to a life long commitment together. Am I overreacting for wanting to just call it and entertain it no more? I feel sad coz she ripped our boy away from the work we did to be a superhero’s in his life all for lust