I got dumped 5 months ago, we went to the same school until I graduated 2 months after the breakup. We were together for a year, lived together, and his reason was it felt like I was using him for money. I was fired from my job and was actively searching for a new one when it happened and I never asked for a penny. Yet he had offered to pay on several occasions that i questioned him about. That was 3 weeks, on top of I was dealing with a family member passing.
Now 3 months into a new and healthy relationship, i have blocked my ex on everything i can except with my school account because i don't have access to block him and still need to talk with career services at the school.
My current relationship is now feeling a strain because he keeps trying to contact me via school accounts (we use teams), and even showed up UNANNOUNCED to my home to drop off items i had left when i quickly moved out.
I have told him i wont go back to him, i learned from my sister to never date the same person twice. He won't listen even when my boyfriend talked with him.