My friend of 9 years just told me about his plan to sleep with a married woman.
The title pretty much says it all.
My friend, who I met in college about 9 years ago, recently told me about how he’s planning to invite a married woman over to our house so they can hook up. Because “he doesn’t give a sh*t”.
This would’ve blindsided me no matter what. But, the fact that I’ve talked to him before about how I’ve been cheated on by multiple partners in the past and how badly it demolished my emotions and ability to trust, makes this extra difficult for me to just ignore.
I didn’t speak my true feelings when he first told me because I didn’t want to risk permanently damaging our friendship. But, I just can’t get over how he’s not only willing to engage in something so brazenly selfish, but actively brag about it to someone who he’s fully aware has been hurt by similar behavior.
I feel ashamed for not having the balls to speak my mind on the spot and I want to rectify that. But every time I try, I freeze up. I don’t really know what to do.