Hi everyone, I have never transported any animal from one country to another. Anyone that has done this can you give me any advice good or bad , also the best transporter to use. Thank you very much
Hi there, I am just reaching out to ask some questions. We are South African living in the uk I am on a spousal visa. So I have two and a half years until I get my IRL. My husband is getting offered a good job in Maurtius but with a huge pay cut but obviously we have to look at everything because I have always wanted to live in Maurtius because we go there on holiday alot and I just love everything about it.
My question is my husband salary ( to be confirmed) is around 120000 rupees a month with benefits, I would have to find a job. Realistically Is that an amount we could comfortably live on.
Edit: So they have come back with a counter offer as the phoned some of the companies my husband worked at over the past 20 years in the uk. So now they offering 170000 , house, car, fuel, medical insurance and relocation funds.
Hi there, I am just reaching out to ask some questions. We are South African living in the uk I am on a spousal visa. So I have two and a half years until I get my IRL. My husband is getting offered a good job in Maurtius but with a huge pay cut but obviously we have to look at everything because I have always wanted to live in Maurtius because we go there on holiday alot and I just love everything about it.
My question is my husband salary ( to be confirmed) is around 120000 rupees a month with benefits, I would have to find a job. Realistically Is that an amount we could comfortably live on.
Edit: So they have come back with a counter offer as the phoned some of the companies my husband worked at over the past 20 years in the uk. So now they offering 170000 , house, car, fuel, medical insurance and relocation funds.
So in school I sucked at learning languages in South Africa we have 11 official languages but only learn besides English being the main language and only language I speak , we learn Afrikaans and Zulu but my brain didn’t absorb shit. Is it true and I am sure read somewhere that people with adhd do battle to learn other languages. Or am I just being nuts
Being late diagnosed like most of the people from the 80’s , I really wish I knew I had adhd in school and through all the relationships I have damaged due to my stupid RSD. It’s literally the worst part, funny thing is when I felt feelings so hard that my stomach felt like anxiety mixed with nausea I thought it was normal and couldn’t understand when people turned on me. But sometimes I feel like a effing cancer and think to myself “why did you have to act like that or say that “. I literally got addicted to sleeping pills and sometimes chased them with alcohol so I would feel nothing and think nothing. I would rather have sleeping pills than food that’s how bad my obsession with these meds was. Just so I could manage life.
Then , I am not sure it’s connected but when I have huge life stresses like I have had for the last 6 months and things start to go right I almost start feeling bored but I know I felt like I wanted to die when my life was literally turning upside down day by day.
Anyways I didn’t feel like writing this down , I just wanted to type it somewhere.
NB: I forgot to put the word “be” in my title , which is another thing I do a lot when I type leave complete words out of sentences. It’s embarrassing especially on social when those annoying memories pop up, I sound like a complete idiot. I am sure I have done that in this post ffs
I have suffered with depression and anxiety since school days , I know depression can be a symptom of adhd but ffs I am not coping. I keep thinking I wish the floor would swallow me up or something would happen so I won’t be here anymore. But the problem is I don’t leave home enough for something to happen.
Back story: Went through a terrible Christmas because we have been battling financially since October all due to my husband lies to me so much…. Yes I have one of those a compulsive liar of a husband, my life is literally hell. My gran who raised my died on New Year’s Eve, then my dad got rushed to hospital, a government hospital in South Africa, just picture the worst hospital in the world and times that by ten. So I managed to get a ticket to go to South Africa, I was there for 2 weeks and he died. I am an only child so I had to arrange everything on my own and lucky for me in chaos that’s where the adhd does come in handy because I kept calm and got shit done.
Flew home mid March to finding plates with cocaine on them , and little small packets everywhere. My husband decided while I was away to have a binge. Then a few weeks later a lot of things weren’t adding up with his job and salary etc. I had to go through his phone because every time he says something I can feel in my gut he is lying and I have never been wrong so far. So I found out he had been let go from his job, the other job he was doing they gave him a brand new car , I don’t know what happened but they reported it stolen. I know he is not telling me the full truth but now he got a lawyers letter from them and I was shaking after I read it, it was bad. Like wtf am I married to. He was also speaking to a prostitute , I have the screen shots. He swears she never came over, but honestly can I believe anything he says.
So I am here in the uk on a spousal visa , my visa renewal is coming up but because he has messed up so bad with his jobs and all the lies he has no payslips to prove he can support me which is just part of the visa process, then in 2 and half years I get my ILR and then after another year a British passport but I have to stay with this man.
I feel so fu@&ing hopeless , I stopped drinking and I am not on any antidepressants. Anyways I just needed to rant because if I don’t I might blow up.