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Hi! I can't find any non-fiction books about being queer and into BDSM. I myself am a genderfluid lesbian, and wish to read BDSM books that aren't so straight and cis-focused. I want to read one that focuses on BDSM as a whole. Does anyone know any? If so, can anyone please recommend some?

Edit: Thank y'all for all of the great recommendations so far! Please no more novel recommendations, my TBR list is full for the year now! 😭

If you have any recommendations that feature POC lesbians, please give them as I want diverse views and am myself a POC! And please going forward no more fiction novels, only non-fiction! 😄