Hi Adelaidians,
Thought ill share my recent experience tonight.
On the way to pick up takeaway, walked past a lady which looked like she was sleeping it rough. My order had enough food for 3 people, there is only 2 of us.
I thought to myself, why not share some of the food and asked for another bag at the restaurant to seperate the food.
Heading back, walked past lady a few steps and doubled back and noticed she was starting to pack up as if she had been asked to move along.
Naively, without thinking of my approach, i just said excuse me mam and asked if shes had something to eat while half way handing over a bag.
"Of course i have, what do you think this is, a free service. Fuck off."
Valid response. Big unshaven stranger guy in trackies, hat and oversized coat offerring food in a darkening street.
After the initial embrassment, it made me realise what she may have gone/going through. It might be her defense mechinism that is required to endure, and stupid me thinking i was only trying to do a nice thing.
Lesson learned, best to leave it to the professionals/relevant bodies/NFPs and that i cant save the world.
Thanks for reading.