u/Funny_Can7504

okay this might be a weird question but

how do you know when something that happened at school is a say something situation vs a let it go situation??

asking because something happened a few weeks ago at my children's school and i STILL don’t know what the right call was. i didn’t say anything but not sure if that was the right move or if i just talked myself out of it because it felt easier...

part of me thinks i’m too in my head about this stuff and always assuming the worst... part of me thinks that’s exactly what i’m supposed to think so i don’t say anything. you know?

do other people have a way of actually deciding or is this just a constant feeling?! Does anyone have a good system or method to check themselves?