u/Fun_Spinach_6767

How should I handle this, my bf and his co-worker are in a secret relationship

Please bear with me, medjo mahaba to.

For context, my now ex- BF (live - in for a year) is nagta-trabaho as a Site Engineer sa isang construction company and yung side chick nya is Time Keeper din sa same company. Btw, I'm also working as Project In Charge on the same field but different company and different site. Nahuli ko silang may affair, last night.

Nagtanong pa yung side chick, non-verbatim: "ikaw love kamusta na gf mo?". I did confront the girl, pero sya pa yung galit at ayaw akuin yung kasalanan nya, kausapin ko nlg daw yung boy, which I did. Pero it takes two to tango kaya dapat akuin din nung girl yung kasalanan nya. Until now, wala akong sorry na natanggap mula sa kanya. Yung pain at trauma na ginawa nila dalawa, andito pa rin. Proud din syang nagsabi na, "edi malandi, happy?".

I wanted to be petty and get revenge sana. I have receipts on their affairs. I have screenshots and stuff.

I planned to message the parents of the girl and let them know what their daughter has been doing and y'know, pagsabihan yung anak nila na di mang-apak ng kapwa babae kase mali yun.

The other one is to report them sa HR mismo nila. May validity kaya if magre-report ako sa HR nila, since di naman kami kasal? I hope you can help your girly out here. I wanted to let them taste their own medicine sana. Hihi Thank youuuu in advance!

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u/Fun_Spinach_6767 — 4 days ago
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Hi, gusto ko lg sana magtanong. Yung company kase namin, magbibigay ng half ng 13th month this June. Pero balak ko sanang mag-resign by May 30 at render until June 30.

Tanong ko lg sana kung mabibigay pa rin ba yung half ng 13th month ko if by June 30 yung last day ko or ma ho-hold sya? Salamat in advance sa mga sagot. 🙏

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u/Fun_Spinach_6767 — 18 days ago

Hi, gusto ko lg sana magtanong. Yung company kase namin, magbibigay ng half ng 13th month this June. Pero balak ko sanang mag-resign by May 30 at render until June 30.

Tanong ko lg sana kung mabibigay pa rin ba yung half ng 13th month ko if by June 30 yung last day ko or ma ho-hold sya? Salamat in advance sa mga sagot. 🙏

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u/Fun_Spinach_6767 — 18 days ago