u/Fun_Pineapple_588

Why should i leave?

Why should i leave?

Why should i leave and why should i stay.

Ive been on a weird relationship with this boy for four years now. On july of 2025 we decided to take it more seriously and started doing the “couple stuff”. The problem is that we are long distance.

He promised me he will visit and he never did, not even once. He has some money and family issues and is difficult for him to do it. Nevertheless, he has done some big purchases like a PC. We live in the same country. Just six hours by train.

Two months ago i told him i had enough cause i was never going to have him by my side and it hurts so much i couldn’t stand it anymore. Yesterday we called and i had the greatest night i had in weeks.

We ended up fighting. He wants me back, wants to be in touch, i, dont know what to do. Is my first relationship and even that, he has never been my boyfriend officially. He said some nasty things to me last night and this morning we were just talking over what to do.

He wants me back but he’ll stop talking to me because we always end up fighting. I love him so much but i really dont want to be in a situation were im not a priority and have to wait more time (not months, years) to even hug him.

I really need interpretation please. 🙏🏻

u/Fun_Pineapple_588 — 3 days ago