u/Fun-Side-6996

Just been invited to a Buckingham Palace Garden Party absolutely gobsmacked. Any tips from people who’ve been?

So I’ve just received one of those cream envelopes with the royal crest on the front and I genuinely thought it was junk mail at first. Turns out I’ve been invited to a Buckingham Palace Garden Party this summer. I’m a regular bloke from England nothing fancy about me whatsoever and I am completely out of my depth.
I’ve got so many questions:
What to wear? I know it’s “smart” but how smart are we talking? Top hat and tails territory? A normal suit?or a morning suit is necessary as come a lot expensive I am not sure I can afford one just for the party. I’ve heard women and men wear hats is that still a thing or does it look try hard?
What actually happens? Do you just… walk around the garden eating finger sandwiches? Is there a programme? Do you get to meet anyone royal or is it thousands of people and you’re lucky to spot a distant corgi?
Etiquette? I don’t want to be the guy who commits some embarrassing faux pas and ends up in a tabloid. Can you just walk upto a royal and ask for a selfi 😭Any dos and don’ts would be massively appreciated.
Practically speaking how long does it last? It says in invitation letter that King will make appearance for 2 hours or so Can you bring a plus one? Do they feed you properly or should I eat beforehand?
I know this is a very “first world problem” but honestly I’m more nervous about this than most things I’ve done in my life. Would love to hear from anyone who’s attended or knows the drill. Cheers! 🎩

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u/Fun-Side-6996 — 3 days ago