Me (24f) and my roommates (30m & 21f) have had a history of issues and don’t really get along well, we just sorta coexist. Well my roommate is having his family over and we were told originally his parents would be staying with us in our guest room. Fine by me, I’ve also had guests over that have stayed in that room, but I always make sure to notify everyone well in advance. He then later tells me that his parents won’t be staying with us anymore and will get a room elsewhere.
Well I guess another family member of his is also visiting and this one is actually staying with us. I only found out by waking up to hearing his (the guest) voice in my house and coming downstairs and seeing bedding on my couch.
I honestly would have had no problem with someone staying over and using my couch, the issue is there was no type of communication or notification that we would be having someone stay with us on said couch using my coffee table (which I’ve already listed on fb marketplace). I also have no timeframe for how long he will be staying with us and I have a guest myself arriving today to visit me, but they will be using the guest room.
I’m not sure if I should say something because I only have a month and a half left with them, but I’m finding this to be really disrespectful given they have a history of issues/miscommunication when it comes to using and sharing things in the house.
Am I overreacting here?