Unfortunately I’ve developed a limerence for a man I dreamt of (not a real person)
I’ve had limerence before years ago
I would obsess, stalk, constantly think about the person. I even managed to get dates with this person only to I realized I don’t like them at all and bail 3x on them asking me out.
So now I’ve got a new limerence and it’s a guy I’ve mentioned met before, not like anyone I know or have heard of. But he was my boyfriend in my dream. I’ve never dreamt someone else so vividly. Usually faces blur / morph etc in my dreams.
It felt like a memory. We were doing just mundane things. Looks wise he’s attainable for me in my opinion. Like we are a good match. It’s not some far fetched fantasy.. other than idk who he is . lol
I don’t know what to do I can’t stalk. I can’t check their instagram, I can’t orchestrate us meeting or talking online or think of our convo or learn all his interests and make myself seem relatable.
I just think of his face in my dream. And I want him.
I really don’t know what to do. I guess it’s healthy I’m
Not glued to my phone stalking socials etc.
but there’s no solution there’s nothing I can do or change.
It feels like agony. I believe he’s my soul mate and I have to find him. I’m thinking what I think about him ( from my dream) where would he hangout, where would he go, what stuff would he do.. maybe I can find him there. I know this sounds insane.
I just want to meet him.
If it was a real person it would be so much easier.
Idk what to do. And idk why I’m telling myself he’s an actual person I have to find.