How to even get out of this mess?
So basically all this scene starts, 3 months ago , i get included in the group and basically i liked someone and she recently got broken up with a guy in my class so i liked her we kept talking and talking and now my guy friend actually doesn't like her and is just keeping a good distance according to him she's extremely manipulative and basically used him and like she badmouthed about her ex-bf all the time and got close to him and then somehow one day she started dating that ex-bf .
Ani he would sometimes say she's again talking shit about him and she basically told another girl about my guy's friend insecurities so he again got angry again and decided to not talk to her anymore. And i was confused cause she was so nice to me she's was always flirting with me and i basically fell for her.
And all this was going on we had a friend group of 6 people and basically this week , first two of the girls fought because my crush was making another girl feel excluded and then my guy friend was again angry because she again said some shit allegedly.
So basically i was the knot Keeping all of them together trying to patch it up and i was interested in her so it was my effort of being close to her and yesterday ,she basically with her her ex who she bad mouths all the time and i saw her talking with him all laughing and blushing.
Now i am hurt and i go tell my guy friend he basically tells me the same shit happened to him too she made him buy stuffs,went to places, led him on and then boom one day she was dating that guy whom she allegedly hates and she basically badmouthed about that ex before dating him and made my guy friend excluded from having friendship with that guy and his group.
Now we talk and he tells me all this from the beginning stuffs i didn't know, now i am fully convinced and i had plans with her that day to go out to eat so i cancelled it and it was unusual for me to cancel so she kept nagging me and told her she was inconsiderate and she was fake for bad mouthing her ex and then going to her ex again and she basically tells me that she had some stuff unsorted so she went to talk and the reason she talked there cause i was there so I would apparently handled her if she cried.
And I don't buy it , i basically said don't ever talk to me ever again and whatever we had is done and i sent ss of our text to my guy friend cause at the time I was convinced that she was the most manipulative person ever and she was using me .
But again, i thought all day what if she acutally did have some work and whatever my male friend said about is untrue and basically my guy friend texts me again asking if she messaged again i said no and in the convo I said now she hates us and he says why would she hate me and i get confused like she clearly mentioned in the messages that she hated him and that girl.
And he says to me that he doesn't hate her , he has nothing against her ,now again this guy yesterday ranted to me about her for an hour and now he doesn't hate her.
I don't know who's right who's wrong, who's manipulating me, there were instances were the girl was manipulative but idk anymore. My brain is all scrambled. I don't even know who to believe ani if i choose the wrong person i will be miserable.
Like the friend group currently is 4 vs 2 and out of two of them one isn't here for 1 or 2 month so it's just her alone and i feel so bad for her. I don't even know what happened like i used to only talk about football and now all this be happening which feels like a movie to me
They all are so convincing and maybe because i like her i am not seeing things clearly. Someone help me.
P.s: this is the most shortest version i can give irl lot more convo and things happened