u/Frosty_Homework_2851

And more importantly, why do they tell you and why are people so weird about it???

My husband and I plan to combo feed & use formula at night bc, unfortunately, he doesn’t lactate. I’m at an increased risk of postpartum depression/anxiety bc of pre-existing mental health conditions and sleep is really important in preventing that. I’ve chosen to do some pumping, some breast and some combo with formula. If BF and pumping don’t work out, I’m not opposed to straight formula feeding. My mental health is more important than HOW my baby is fed.