For context, I already had my speech written out since I’m in the wedding so it’s not like it’s an excuse to not write one. But not even a week ago this Sunday two weeks from his wedding, my older brother got arrested for a DUI and things have just felt really awkward in general because it happened so far, so I’ve kind of tried to avoid him because there’s really nothing to say to him, my family already told him how disappointed they were in him for drinking (apparently it’s not the first time he’s been drinking booze).
With that in mind, I got a text from him earlier about how I have to make a speech and I’ve been contemplating on whether I should text him back or wait until tomorrow when he’s off work to talk to him about my decision one on one so my parents don’t flip out. What should I do? I still have a couple days to tell him before the wedding prep starts on Thursday