u/Forsaken_Pear_9459

My friend and i are 27/F. Both of us arent each other’s bestfriend or anything but we have a lot of fun when we hang out and we dont really have much of a filter so its really nice hanging out with her.

The last time we met we we thought of playing “we listen and we dont judge” and she told me that when she was young, and she slept over with her cousins she would touch them and they would touch her too.. and they would like kiss too on the mouth and make out. (Never went beyond that) She said it happened with three cousins who are boys and it was when she was very young.. like in 5th/6th. She said she deeply regrets it although doesn’t remember who initiated it each time. Anyway i was shocked and didnt know what to say. I even attended one of those guys wedding recently and another one was our batchmate in tutions and all. Anyway now nothing is awkward and they all behave like proper cousins who meet up when they do and everything is normal. I cannot say she was groomed coz the eldest was 4yrs elder to her. So they were all kids. Now the thing is i dont know why she had to tell me this. I said we should wrap the game up and started acting awkward and eventually she left. Idk what to feel. I kinda feel sorry for her too.. she said it haunts her even now.

Also she has been very loyal in her relationships and has infact only dated 1 person before her current bf so i never expected something like this from her.

Idk if i should judge her for her past or just forget this happened and move on.