So I’ve been talking to this girl for a while, things were going great fama good chemistry, she’s funny, smart. We finally met up in person and she invited me to her university to hang out.
And holy shit.
This girl knows every single person on that campus. I’m not exaggerating. We’re walking and every 2 minutes someone says hi to her. But the part that got me was: she’s constantly tapping guys on the shoulder when laughing, touching their arms, very physically comfortable with a LOT of dudes. Not in a disrespectful way necessarily, just… very familiar.
I’ve always dated girls with small circles like 2 girl besties, keeps to themselves, low-key. This was my first time seeing a girl who’s basically the mayor of her university lol. And I don’t know why, but it made me internally uncomfortable. Like a turn-off.
I didn’t say anything to her because I’m not trying to control her, but now I’m wondering am I wrong for feeling this way? Is this common khater ena awl mara nahki maa tofla haka or is that a valid turn-off? I know she’s not doing anything “wrong,” but it just didn’t sit right with me.