A close friend of mine is starting to get on my nerves. They are the type that needs constant validation and they’ve had dramatic fallings out and friendship breakups with at least five other past best friends, whole friend groups, and family members, as well as dramatic exits from two jobs. I love them, but I see the pattern even though they INSIST it’s always been the other persons fault. I’ve even spoken to them about why this seems to always happen to them. They went to therapy and concluded fhe healthiest thing was to move on, which i agree with. However there is a new issue with another friend and I am starting to resent being their therapist once again to someone who has done them wrong.
They are an INFP, if that helps. Im a classic ISTP. Has anyone dealt with this dynamic? Would appreciate advice on how to deal with this situation, I still love and appreciate their friendship and I don’t want to cut them off or anything extreme.