u/Foreign_Cattle_3695

I had a client give feedback that I’m too validating and not directive enough. This seems to be the only type of negative feedback I receive from former clients — one told me they wanted someone with a “firmer personality.”

Since this is a repeated criticism, I have to believe that there’s some truth to it. But I don’t quite know how to proceed. It seems like such a delicate balance between helping someone feel understood while still pushing them toward change. And I definitely wouldn’t describe myself as a passive therapist, especially if someone is engaging in a behavior that is likely to have a negative outcome.

Not sure what to do or how to feel about this feedback. Has anyone else heard this?