u/Fluffy-Dig-7011

He tried every controlling trick in the book - “you don’t even use the exercise stuff you already have….It’s a motivation problem…just try going for a walk once in a while…it DOES TOO affect me cause I’m gonna have to live with whatever decision you make…and the real kicker….its MY money so I get to say no.”

If anyone here is getting this kind of BS from their partner, please know they are far more concerned about how your growth and change will impact their ego than it is about anything to do with you. Also, your body, your freaking choice, friend.