Hey guys, this may seem not important but a friend of mines is currently being diagnosed for adhd and I try excuse her for her condition. However, I’m not sure if I’m over reacting and need help processing.
I’ve noticed that my friend is not the best in hearing things such as venting but I do try my best to help her process her thoughts and feelings. It’s a pattern where I will hear her sporadic thoughts and rants that last over a hour plus yet when something happens to me, she struggles to be empathetic and keeps it short.
Another thing I struggle to understand is that she would bring up an idea to invite me but later on it will fizzle out and I would hear her telling me that she is going out with another person instead. I don’t let this bother me because I know from my end I don’t confirm in a way to remind her. I try to not confront because she seems traumatized from her last friend group but at the same time I feel unheard and I’m sure a lot of it can be connected to being impulsive.