Sharing dating story
So I am 24M, came to bangalore in sept 2024. I was new here and had a breakup before coming to bangalore. It was kinda bad after 5 year of dating. So I just joined bumble and hinge here. Initially I just get 2-3 matches in couple of week. But when I start talking to girls outta here idk I just got a vibe that this city isn't looking for a serious thing. Everyone is like lets see vibe, where things go kinda ! No body wanted a commitment. So this bumble/hinge didn't work out for me and also now I was in the same shit. I wasn't able to look for something serious. I was also looking out for casual thing idk wth.
Meanwhile I got to see add of this app called pure. I joined that. That has a subscription thing before posting profile. I took that subs. Now I got that dark side of bangalore😂. Married couple even committed girls were looking around for hookup or fwb kinda thing. It was a crazy place. I got couple of matches there even more than bumble/hinge combined. Met couple of girls outta from there.
Now back to today. My subscription ended last month. When I met a girl from pure last time, I really felt kinda guilty gross. My main aim was to find someone who stays and now my full vibe was changed to one time thing. Now I feel bad for myself
I don't know how can I find someone to date in the city who is like looking for a serious thing.
How you guys are getting your partner in bangalore ? I'm too jealous of people having healthy relationship. But now I was exposed to the side of pure app, that I can't barely trust anyone seeing people having relationship still sleeping with others !
How to cope up from this situation? Any advice and suggestions are welcomed 👏