This my 2nd attempt at working the steps. 1, 2 and 3 are no problem.
Step 4 keeps tripping me up. I'm taking accountability for the mistakes I've made and any resentments I've caused but of course I'm fully aware that the resentments I hold for others are for the same people I wronged and after reliving it twice now I realise the timeline is messed up. The fact I was wronged before getting into active addiction and before I started acting up. I know that whether I was wronged or not I would still be an addict either way, but it's finding the forgiveness for them that I'm struggling with. I'm finding it hard to get through it without getting depressed or without letting it affect my mental health. Most stuff is forgiveable but there's just a couple of things I can't seem to forgive. Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with a similar issue?