Starting braces tomorrow + preparing for double jaw surgery (24M, recessed jaw, deep bite)
I’m 24, about to turn 25, and I’m starting orthodontic treatment tomorrow in preparation for double jaw surgery.
I had both a recessed upper and lower jaw and a 100% impinging deep bite my entire life, but I only really understood the impact of it within the past year. Growing up, I always felt like my side profile looked “off,” and I assumed it was just my nose. Looking back, it was clearly skeletal.
Over time, I’ve noticed other issues that seem connected or at least compounding things. I’m naturally very lean (~157 lbs at 6’0”), and I’ve developed posture issues like anterior pelvic tilt, rounded shoulders, and forward head posture.
Mentally, it’s been harder than I expected. I’ve struggled with feeling unattractive for years, including through a four year long relationship where I never really felt comfortable in my appearance which eventually as of a couple months ago was the reason it came to an end.
I recently had my wisdom teeth removed, and now I’m getting braces on tomorrow. I’m also starting a new job Monday, so I’m dealing with a lot of change at once. It’s honestly making me very self-conscious.
The plan is eventual double jaw surgery after orthodontics, ideally within 9–12 months depending on how things go. I’m just trying to stay focused on the long-term outcome because right now the process feels overwhelming.
If anyone has gone through similar timing (braces + work + surgery prep), I’d appreciate hearing how you handled it, or just any responses at all would be nice. Thank you.