My partner of 12years (M38) and I (F35) have 3 kids.
I had to call the ambos on him for the first time... he was clearly off his head.... sluring words... unable to stand/walk... throwing himself into things and hurting him self... I found him outside covered in blood... I couldn't reason with him... normally I can get him to lay down and sleep it off... but I couldn't... and with the amount of blood I was concerned..
I called the ambos they arrived and then called for back up... cops showed up... they called for more...
And 4ambos and 5 cops ended up showing up..
They had to restrain him and sedate him to get him in the ambulance.
And the cops had to kick in my bathroom door due to him not opening it and being a potential danger to himself.
I'm now left with a broken bathroom door... blood and poo everywhere in the bathroom and surrounding hall way...
This is the first time I called for assistance in our whole relationship... I was terrified for his safety...
Now I'm terrified of the consequences.... he looked so broken when they took him... but I just couldn't have him around the kids in THAT state.... and he looked like he seriously hurt himself...
AITA.... or am I just stuck in a loop with an escalating addict...