u/Fine_Recognition_930

I'm a uni student and realized I may not have the GPA requirements to get into my Business school, due to a recent difficult semester. Just in case I don't, I want to know which majors are a close second, I guess, to Business. I wanted to go for Entrepreneurship or Management, and I know Economics, SCM, Marketing, Accounting, MIS, and Finance would all be off the table if I can't get into Business.

I love business, so this would be a huge bummer for me - the only thing I can think of that's close to the majors I liked is Communications? What do y'all think?

I’m 20F. The title says it, but does anybody experience shame surrounding their anxiety? I have this thing where I have a “reputation” with myself - I don’t care as much for reputation with others, but I have an extremely high integrity to the point where I feel like it can be a bad thing sometimes. Oftentimes, I feel hesitant to do something that’s “wrong,” even if only mildly so, because I feel so ashamed and guilty and I see it as a “streak” to my personal record.

I have an example. I hope this doesn’t sound pretentious at all, but I grew up with my parents always influencing me to do the right thing. Along with that, a few things they always told me were to never drink or do drugs. I should note they were okay with occasional drinking once I reached a legal age or if I was with them, but they didn’t want me giving into any peer pressure. As a result of that, I grew up with very little desire to do either of those things, along with other things like club/party, or any of the other “wild” things teens/young adults are sometimes encouraged to indulge in.

Many times in my teenagehood, I had moments where I knew I was intentionally missing out and felt so anxious about being perceived as a prude because I didn’t want to do the things my friends would do. I remember once I was at a friend’s birthday party at her beach house a few hours from home when the whole group (it wasn’t just my friend group, but like 4 others so it was about 17 teens) and they were all drinking or doing weed and playing spin the bottle in the basement. I could not for the life of me pluck up any desire to “experience” life in that way, and I pretended I had cramps and stayed in the room until I fell asleep. Yesterday, my best friend of 13 years confessed to me that she was frustrated that I am often close-minded and don’t want to do the things she wants to (like club, which the thought of brings up tremendous anxiety for me). I tried my best to tell her I don’t have any judgment for her or anyone who does the things I don’t want to do - I know to some degree that desire is normal, and if anything I feel wrong and embarrassed for not wanting to. She mistakenly said something that stuck with me, although she corrected it as soon as it came out. She said that a lot of the times she feels she sucks it up when she’s uncomfortable and she doesn’t see why some things are such a big deal for me and wishes I would “shut up” sometimes.

I’m just struggling with so much shame about this, because I can’t control it no matter how hard I try. I’ve had anxiety since I was in Pre-K. I feel like it’s a part of me now. And after talking to my best friend, I can tell I’ve even become a burden at times, and I just want to disappear!