23M AND 22F . Love and Marriage
I am 23M. I have a girlfriend whom I have known since Class 9.
We were just school acquaintances at first, but in Class 11 we got to know each other better and became good friends. After school, we both went to different colleges and had our own relationships, which were complicated and did not work out.
We stayed in touch over the years, but in October 2024, we reconnected deeply. Since then, it became a long-distance relationship. It was emotionally intense, with love, fights, misunderstandings, and many obstacles from both sides. We crossed all of it somehow the other way .
In July 2025, we met after a long time, and she even introduced me to her mother. Later, we had phases where we got separated, got close again, and finally parted ways at the end of 2025.
After around four months, I messaged her again in May 2026. Unexpectedly, this time we met, talked, cried, and shared how much we had missed each other.
The main confusion is that many astrologers have warned us against this relationship. They said our charts do not match, and some even said it could lead to serious problems like hospitals, police cases, or legal trouble. One of my Brahmin friends, who knows our story and is also into astrology, strongly advised me not to pursue this.
But honestly, apart from family acceptance and caste issues, there is no major practical problem. I am earning decently now, more than ₹50K per month, and she is currently looking for a job. We both come from modest families .
We both love each other, but we are also confused and scared because of all these warnings.
Our current thought is to become stable in our careers, and then eventually talk to our families.
What should we do? Should we trust our love and practical situation, or should we take the astrological warnings seriously? Thanks in advance 🙏