u/Fikshunzzz

Past three times me and my partner tried to have sex i could not get erect. I don’t usually have trouble with getting hard but whenever im hooking up with my current partner, i’m unable to get aroused. I haven’t had sex before but i don’t think it’s a mental thing because i don’t get conscious about it like that and ive had oral several times before. I was thinking it might be a problem with condoms but not sure. How can i perform the best?