im trying to keep this gender neutral just so this cannot get back to me, cool??
this friend have known each other for about 4ish years (we are both minors, so like school friends)
in the last two years i did date their friend, though looking back now i dont really think i ever liked them to much they didnt really treat me like a partner, just as a friend.
my friend started dating their partner while me and the friend were dating as well. right before summer me and their friend broke up while my friend stayed with his current partner.
my parents keep making jokes about how it seems like they may like me but they have always just act a little funny with everyone.
but it did make me think about it and i think sadly i do have some sort of feelings that are definitely not okay.
so what do i do? i dont want to lose this friend, i only have two close friends (my bestfriend and then the person this is about) i have already been fighting with my bestfriend recently and i really dont want to lose my person (bestfriend) and the friend this is about.
but i also know that these feelings aren't fair to my friend or to their partner, even if me and their partner are not close (meaning weve talked like once)