I am not really sure where to start with this. My daughter is training in wrestling. She is 14 but looks older, is good looking, in shape etc. She has started to improve so is now training more with adult men, as they are the most common wrestlers. Some women, some boys. It seems to me most of the guys are very decent, very respecful etc. However she has been getting online messages from a couple of older boys which arent at first glance bad, but more just creep vibes.
Trying to put myself in her shoes, imagining how she would feel having to get in the ring with someone has has a dishonest motive.
She has also mentioned other women wrestlers she talks to have had similar things.
I was just wondering if something like spill the tea existed for wrestling, so the girls could keep an eye our for each other and know which creeps to stay away from