u/Feisty-Guest-462

Hey, I’m 15F and I want genuine answers, not just “be yourself” (even though I know that matters).
I’d say personality-wise I’m pretty caring and I like making people feel comfortable and happy. I’m kind of an overthinker sometimes, but I also joke around a lot once I’m comfortable. I’m more on the soft/creative side than super loud or chaotic.
Looks-wise, I have blonde hair and blue eyes. I’m not super skinny, but I’m not overweight either, just kinda average/normal.
The reason I’m asking is because every guy I’ve dated has either cheated or left me for another girl. I’m not trying to blame them for everything, but at this point I feel like I have to be doing something wrong or missing something.
So I guess my questions are:
What actually makes a girl stand out to you as someone you’d want to date?
What are things girls do that turn you off (personality-wise, not just looks)?
Is there anything you think I might be doing wrong based on what I said?
Please be honest, I can take it. I’d rather hear the truth than just be told I’m “perfect” and stay confused.