I’ve been playing this sport since my freshman year of high school, including playing in the offseason like summer and fall. I was first called up to varsity my sophomore year of hs and I have been on varsity since. My problem is my coaches treat me like I might as well not be on the team at all. Since my freshman year I missed probably around 4-5 practices and one game, for a college reason, and yet I have nothing to show for it very little game time and even being thrown to the side at practices. My coaches overlook me constantly and put younger kids above me. I’m not saying I’m the greatest at said sport but I have definitely put more time and effort than most people have but yet my coaches don’t seem to care.
I’ll also share that my coaches are very strict. You miss a practice you don’t suit up for the next game, you miss a game you don’t suit up for the next two as-long as there isn’t a reasonable excuse to miss.
My question is, how wrong would it be of me to miss one game to go to a prom house with my friends?