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Question: is it ok to get a tattoo that you do not want to explain the meaning to people or is that just asking for more trouble i currently have a symbol on my arm for my grandfather who committed suicide and whenever someone asks i hate answering the question because not only does it kill my mood but it kills theirs too and then they just feel bad about it. So in the future should i just not get a tattoo that i don't want to answer questions about or do you guys have any recommendations on how to respond to these questions? thank you so much.