The guy plans a date with me and blocks me on the same day we are supposed to meet. No warning or message. This has happened to me twice (different men).
What am I missing here? Is this normal behavior?
Let’s say you like a man’s profile and you send him a message mentioning something that you have in common or that you are curious about them after reading their profile.
How many replies have you received if you looked at the percentage?
I sent out a total of 60 messages and received a couple replies. Is that normal?
After my original post last Tuesday, I spent an entire weekend with him. Most of the time was spent on getting to know each other and we had some deep talks about what I want and don’t want in a relationship. He said that he was glad that I shared that with him.
I feel relaxed around him, no anxiety, turns out we are very much alike as we almost share the same birthday, he is attentive, takes good care of me, is well-mannered and has everything going for him.
When I got home, it dawned on me that I am starting to get used to him, that he is a good guy with good intentions and I truly need to give him a chance.
This weekend he invited me to spend it with him and part of his near family. Hopefully I will develop some feelings for him but if not, at least I had a nice time.
I really need to lower my walls down a bit. After being in a relationship with an avoidant for 1.5 years, it will take a special guy and some time before I can do that. I need consistency and to feel safe. No point in rushing!