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FTBs being pressured to complete in 7 days but haven’t even exchanged yet. is it normal?

My partner and we are first-time buyer, currently in the final stages of getting our mortgage. the seller is also chain-free.

The seller is dead set on a completion date of 22/05 (which is next week). However, as of today (13/05), we haven’t even exchanged contracts yet. We haven't signed the final papers or even been asked to transfer the deposit to our solicitor.

We just received the survey report yesterday and have a couple of genuine concerns we need to raise (nothing major serious). We want to push Completion back to 01/06 (which makes more sense for our finances as we are currently renting until July), but the seller flat out refused and is insistently pushing for the 22nd. I feel like we’re being forced into an incredibly risky and unrealistic timeline.

  • Is it normal to be pushed this hard to complete within 7 working days when we haven't even exchanged?
  • Is the seller's refusal to move the date by just one week a red flag?
  • We're worried that if we rush this, we’ll be hit with double bills (rent + mortgage+council tax+bills)) and overlapping interest for no good reason other than their deadline

Should we stand our ground? Thanks in advance for the advice

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u/Fast-Complaint8055 — 21 hours ago

struggle to use handbrake for hill starts

I passed my test recently in a manual brand-new car. My instructor never actually taught me how to use the handbrake for hill starts (only footbrake, clutch, gas)
Now I’ve got my first car - an old 2008 Nissan note 1.4 and it’s a totally different story. I had a nightmare yesterday at a busy roundabout, the car kept rolling back, I stalled, I completely panicked.
Is the handbrake essential for an older car like mine? is there any way I can do without using handbrake as it really stressing me out :(((
I’m now dreading my commute to work :((( really need some advice. thank you so much

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u/Fast-Complaint8055 — 3 days ago

could I get points or lose my licence for this?

Had a really bad moment today in my manual car at a big traffic light roundabout on a hill. Lights went green but I hadn’t properly put it into 1st gear, so the car rolled back and ended up blocking two lanes (the picture)
A few people helped me. then there was a really nice man jump in the car and helped me drove it to the near petrol station to be safe. No crash, no injuries, no police involved.
the car itself isn’t broken or anything, it’s just quite old and the gearstick needs to be pushed in quite firmly

I’ve had license for nearly 3 months. I’m now mega worried and stressing about whether traffic cameras could mean points/fine or revoke license 😭
Has anyone been in similar situations? what should I do? thank you

u/Fast-Complaint8055 — 4 days ago

Scared of my first motorway drive alone

Passed my test 2 months ago (young female, 60+ hours learned). after that I did another 4 hours on the motorway with my instructor so he could show me the route from my house to work (about a 40 min drive).
Got my first car today and next Monday I’ll have to drive to work on my own for the first time on the motorway (M56). I’m so scared 😭
What I’m most worried about is accidentally staying in the left lane too long and ending up going the wrong way, because to get to my office I need to move over to the right lane a few times for different exits, and I’m scared I’ll miss them :(((
Did anyone else feel like this when they first started driving alone on motorways? Any tips would really help 🙏😭thank you

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u/Fast-Complaint8055 — 5 days ago

Hi everyone, I’m a first-time driver and this will be my first car. I’m a young lady and trying to decide between 2 options and would really appreciate some advice.

I mainly want something reliable, easy to drive, cheap-ish to run, and good for everyday use (commuting).

2 cars I’m looking at are:

2008 Nissan Note – 1.4 16V Acenta R Euro 4 (5dr)

Petrol - 35,000 miles

2013 Ford B-Max – 1.4 Zetec Euro 5 (5dr)

Petrol - 78,100 miles

I like that the Nissan has much lower mileage, but the Ford is newer and has a slightly more modern feel.

Which one would you go for as a first car? Any things I should watch out for with either of them?

Thanks so much 😊

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u/Fast-Complaint8055 — 19 days ago