Help!
Me (20F) and my bf (20m) have been in a relationship for over a year now. He was in a 2 year relationship before we met and so was I. I get so upset that he was in a relationship before me (even though I also was) and can’t help but think she was more interesting than me and he loved her more than he loves me. My last relationship was extremely toxic so when it ended I was relieved rather than upset. I know that when my bf and his ex broke up he was distraught for such a long time and I don’t think he would be that upset if our relationship ended. Him and his ex were also very similar and had all of the same hobbies so I feel like I am boring and he has told me before that he thinks I am boring for not really having any hobbies. It also doesn’t help that his ex goes to uni in the same city as me so I’m always worried that I’ll see her around. I think about her so much to the point I have dreams about her at least once a week. I have stopped stalking her on social media idk what else I can do to stop thinking about her. I need advice please.