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I have such a hard time understanding ya’ll. Especially INFPs. They describe you guys as daydreamy and so are us INFJs but I’m wondering how it’s different to Ni daydreaming.

What occupies your mind? What is your primary objective on a daily basis? What matters to you?

For me with Ni dom I tend to oscillate between long periods of deep, trance-like thought and then coming out of it to realize I’m alive and in a body lol. Half the time idk what I was even thinking about unless it was specific research.

Anyway I’m just wondering if anyone can help me understand what’s happening in your guys’ minds. Fi doms often feel like an enigma to me.

Bonus points if you can contrast it to Ni

I’m curious because it often feels quite divided - like people either love or hate their dual type.

It kind of makes sense. I’m an INFJ and I’ve had some bad experiences with unhealthy ESTPs but at the same time they’re my bros. I love how they bring out my not-often-seen jock energy. They actually get and enjoy my depth more than most types. Like they actually listen and show curiosity. I’ve also experienced them as very protective. I feel I can relax around them.

We seem to get each other on some vibey level. Do other types experience this with their duals?

Overall, I’m curious about the specific nuances people experience with their mirror types - just for fun. (And so we can all reflect hehe 🤓)