(F24) I have a long distance relationship, it's been a year a half, during this time we have sexted and shared some sexual content with each other and we're finally meeting in person in four weeks.
Here's what makes me nervous, and sorry if I don't use the correct words
I recently noticed that the skin on my boyfriend penis does not go all the way down, I mean, the head-like shape that is supposed to get out does not get all the way out? if that makes sense
I never gave it much thought, I always supposed that's the way he liked it or just the way his penis is but given that we're meeting soon, he's been doing a few subtle comments about us having sex, he never pushes me to do anything I don't want to and I kinda want to be with him in that way BUT I have been thinking that I need to ask him why his penis does't uncover completely.
the reason I think I should ask him is because I believe (and correct me if I'm wrong pls) that it is necessary that it unfolds completely, for pleasure and for hygiene because there's something that forms under that skin and needs to be washed? but it is clear that he can't pull his skin that much.
do I need to ask him about it? how? Is it safe for me to be with him like that? I don't pretend to offend anyone, I just need some help
Also, I used to think that a man needed his skin pulled all the way down in order to have intercourse but he's told me he's been with other women so idk.
I'm asking with all the respect so please answer the same way, thank you!