I think the idea that at a festival like coachella or burning man having a weekend where you act wild getting gone off drugs and having casual sex with someone youve known less than 24 hours is completely fine. My issue is when someone who wants to be seen and treated as not that type of person does this and then acts like because its a festival it doesnt count.
To me thats crazy especially if its part of your digital footprint, you have to represent yourself the way you expect to be thought of. I think while expecting the opposite sounds nice if people could temporarily have more extreme/controversial lifestyles without being socially typecast but its just not how people work. Like if youre an aerospace engineer but you twice a year you get drunk and run around in a minions suit fighting homeless people noones ignoring that about you the other 363 days of the year.