Broke up with my ex about a month ago now. The break up was pretty messy but long story short, she broke up with me because I caught her in lies and inconsistencies. The last thing she sent me was an Email to never contact her again and that any other form of contact is considered harassment. She also told other people that she no longer feels safe around me. So fast forward a month later aka yesterday and she just randomly unblocked me on Facebook but still has me blocked on all other socials.
Im pretty sure she found someone else already, mainly because she was the type that needed multiple people for validation. But what I dont understand is why unblock me? At first, i thought it was to just check up to see how I was doing but i never share my life my social. Not even update my profile lol.
I have no desire to speak with her, i fact i was doing really really great on healing. But seeing her name pop up on my messager kinda made me set back a bit and made me hope she would apologize and tell the truth on things. But I know i wont ever get that and I know thinking about all this is a huge waste of time. I did block her, but that hope of getting a sincere apology got to me so I unblocked again. But now i feel stupid because im almost certain that she's and advoidant and narcissist so getting accountability from her after a month will never happen. Now i gotta wait 48hrs to block again and I hate that.