My parents f(47) and m(53) have been divorced since 2013 and i naturally lived with my mum because my dad had to move in with his parents etc. Because of that the agreement was i spent a weekend with him every fortnight. since then he's gotten a wife and moved to a separate county but it's only a 20 / 25 minute drive away. living at my mums has been fine but at the moment i'm very fed up (for reasons i won't say here) and just looking forward to going to college and getting a job so i can move out.
On friday my dad picked me up as usual and on the drive home i just kinda broke down i guess. A couple hours later him and his wife said they'd be happy for me to move in with them after i finish school in june. About 2 years ago i had asked to move but never gone through with it but this time I'm genuinely considering it. I just need advice on if it's a good decision or not because eventhough my parents houses are 20 minutes away it's like impossible to continue living my life there. I would have to start completely fresh. And as soon as i tell my mum about any of it she would definitely go apeshit. Nevertheless i always feel more relaxed and just settled here and i think mentally it would be better for me. The only major problem is my dad owns 2 tabby cats (sisters) and i own a ginger boy. In the area there's a whole community of boy cats that come visit my dad for treats and there's never been a problem with the girls but i'm worried living with them might be different.