Why do things get worse?
I had a falling out with someone and they basically told me they didnt want me in their life anymore. I let them be, but today I reached out just to ask one final favor of them (it had to do with them giving me peace so I could move on). They usually answered me in less then 2 hours even when they were really busy, but they haven't answered all day. I called to see if they changed their number or blocked me. The phone rang but they didn't pick up. Im not sure if they were just ignoring me or if someone else already has their number. I left it at that and no longer reached out. Im no longer going to try to get a hold of them and let them be, but I need closure nonetheless. I want to get closure by myself, so I ended up asking on FB for advice. Everyone was being sympathetic, letting me know I crossed a boundary and to accept what happened as closure. Someone anonymously started making me feel like shit, laughed in my face and mocked me. It brought my mood down even more. I know that I did wrong by not respecting what my friend wanted, and I feel bad for it now that Im carefully thinking things through. This person made me feel worse for my mistake. This person also made me feel like there's absolutely no chance my friend will come back, even if the future is inevitable.