I joined this club at my school and there’s this one member of that club who often says things that get on my nerves and pokes random holes in comments that I make. This is one reason why I want nothing to do with him. Not only that but he also somehow makes the activity the club is revolved around very unfun for me. I told him this once actually.
And if so, is it an autism trait? This is an example of what I mean.
Sometimes when I try to memorize facts, I notice that I find certain facts easier to memorize if they have something to do with how a certain behavior is seen by a group of people or how it looks to them. For example, I had to deliver a presentation for a class and one thing I pointed out in the presentation was a fact about how a certain behavior was akin to “religious sectarianism”
It’s that whenever I come across a very lame inconvenience or have to make a change that feels unfair, I think “I’m gonna bet good money that this is what jail or prison is like.”
DAE have it?
Because I have. I apologize if this sounds like behavior I shouldn’t celebrate because it’s the bare minimum but i fantasized about treating someone this way and then them being my partner partially because people who treat them in such a way are rare in their life. This is actually one of the reasons my ex became interested in a relationship with me.
If so, what was it?
This was the case for me. If you feel like u need an example, this is an example of the last time I felt this
There was a time when i was part of a group for my class and each group had to come up with a group name and I had a group name suggestion that somehow no one seemed to like. It was iffy, like me, I guess u could say. I’m one of the iffiest people I know. And i don’t mean that to say that I’m shady I just mean that I’m very janky, odd, and kinda unorganized.
I have but the other person involved didn’t say anything like that.
Let’s say you ask someone something regarding a subject they brought up or a question that doesn’t sound very personal to you and they decline to answer because they don’t feel comfortable answering or because they’re a very private person. Even though I’m kinda a private person, I’m not used to people who are as private or even more private than me.
However, the first time I came across this behavior was with a celebrity I was just reading about when I found out that he’s very “private” about his personal life.
I have. I thought it would end by the time I started going to college. It didn’t but it became a lot less common. I noticed a recent resurgence in it but it was limited to a club I joined that met on campus and this other club I joined that also met on campus.
For example, I sometimes hit something as if to nonverbally say “this is my decision and I’m sticking with it.” Or “I’m completely serious” or “I’m locking in”
Usually when I hit things it’s just a knock on something or hitting the bottom of my fist on something
This is actually one of the reasons I asked for a gavel for my birthday.
For example there was this game I played called Inquisitor where there is an NPC who is a cripple and steals just to live and charges people money for information. There is a magic container of oil you have to give him and once you give it to him, he rubs it on his face, and his visible disability suddenly disappears and he develops an interest in writing plays.
Kinda unrelated but the game itself is set in the early 1200s