Hey everyone, I’m new here and I’m looking for some advice, I (27M) And my girlfriend (25F) Have been together now around 2.5 years as we also have a beautiful 1.5 year old daughter. Me and my girlfriends relationship has had a lot of ups and downs but since the baby we’ve really found our groove or so I thought, my girlfriend has never been to a doctor or anything but she has these episodes where she will just turn ice cold, like a total stranger, shel treat me so bad and start a big fight.
I thought we were making progress since having the baby bc I could tell she was really trying and she hadn’t had an episode in a while and she was treating me well but then a couple weeks ago it’s like everything switched back again.. shes had zero patience with me and just snaps on me for any and everything, I literally don’t know what to do I am getting scared at this point bc I just can’t understand how she can just turn so cruel so fast and right infront of our daughter at that.
We have no help so i cant just leave like we depend on each other and need each other but it’s like she hates my guts and she just can’t move past it and then last night she was stonewalling me for no reason (like a flip switched) and I’m being very gentle and soft with her asking why she’s doing this but she wouldn’t answer so I just decided to turn over and go to sleep but then she just full on attacked me… kicking me over and over as hard as she could, flailing and hitting me like she was possessed. I am terrified and it’s like she gets possessed at night and just turns into this evil soulless person to the point I am in fear for my life. I don’t know what to do but at this point I have really lost hope and I don’t know what to do. I feel like a hostage.