Here is my beautiful ring!!! I picked it out with my fiance. I was going to get my mother in laws diamond in this ring but then it was not able to be done because of super high costs. But i fell in love so I decided I wanted this ring. Some people have judged it for the size but i love it!
Me and my step sister are the same age. I got engaged in October and I’m about 5 months out to my wedding! She is going to be engaged next week. I’m not sure exactly why but i’m feeling bitterness about it. She has already been very judgy about my wedding, ring, proposal and everything. She is EXTREMELY self centered and makes everything about her and i know that she will be so obnoxious while i’m trying to plan and get my stuff done. She said she was going to come to be for all the advise but i won’t be able to do that while im planning.
It’s also the proposal that is bothering me. My fiance and I are very lowkey people. We mutually decided to get engaged and I knew when it was going to happen. I HATE HATE surprises, they give me so much anxiety. We had an amazing day and could ask for more. I also got a smaller ring because im not a big ring girl. This was how I wanted it and my fiance as well. She is having a huge fancy engagement with a party afterwards and dinner. Her ring is massive. I don’t feel jealous because I wouldn’t want that for myself. However, i feel like people will judge us and think that we aren’t as good as them because we had a lowkey engagement. I know it’s dumb to feel this way but it peeves me. Because i know she will brag and compare ours together. She was even saying when she went ring shopping how her ring was WAYYY bigger than mine. I just fear that I will be in the shadows the minute she is engaged. Is that bad to feel this way of entitled?