bsf and her bf and his bsf
So my friend is dating this guy I’ve known for a long time (longer than she has) and he keeps bullying me and lowkey hating on me. atp i honestly can’t tell if it’s genuine or just banter, but it’s starting to get to me. i know she probably won’t really defend me against him, and i haven’t exactly been the nicest to him either because of all this. i think i might've hurt him and/or her by expressing my feelings abt this...maybe that's why he's so mean?
The second problem is that his friend started getting closer to me, asking for my socials and stuff, but he's not the nicest either, honestly even more harsh. We’ve still been talking though ( *a lot)...*he’s had a rough past, but i genuinely don’t know what he’s trying to do or what his intentions are...
ive been fighting w/ fire and reciprocating the same energy back to them but now thinking abt it that prob isnt the best choice. but i also feel and know that no one will take me srsly...
Now i feel really confused about my relationship with my bsf. i absolutely cannot lose her, but sometimes i feel like i am, especially when they get touchy in front of me. it really pmo, and o can’t tell if I’m jealous, selfish, or just hurt. i feel like a bad friend and i genuinely don’t know what to do...