I’ve been using AFA for about two weeks now. I’m 26, and I want to date a woman from a different culture and experience something different than what I’m used to. I have a thing for Latinas and was thinking about going on a tour in the future. I’m traditional and marriag minded. I would love to settle down and provide a great life for us.
The problem I’m running into with AFA is that I messaged some women from Colombia and was rejected both times. No hard feelings, but I started wondering if maybe they’re not interested in me due to differences in religion or maybe even skin color. AFA has been sending me introduction letters, and the majority of the women are from Europe (mostly Ukraine), the Philippines, Argentina, and a few from Brazil. I dont get any intro letters from women in Colombia or Mexico. I Replied to intro letter to a girl from the Philippines and Ukraine, and both were very kind, open, and seemed very interested in me. The letters felt real and sincere.
If women from Colombia rejected me, it makes me wonder why women from other countries seem more interested. Is this just normal differences in preferences, or should I be cautious? Are introduction letters usually genuine, or are they sometimes sent more broadly? I don’t want to overthink it, but I also want to make sure I’m approaching this in a realistic way.