I need honest opinions because I’m confused
Last year I met a guy at a wedding event in India. He was born and raised in the U.S. but he was staying here for around 4 months. We became friends, then really close, and eventually he told me he liked me and wanted something more. I liked him too.
We spent a lot of time together goin out, tryin cafes, talkin a lot and honestly it was one of the happiest times I’ve had in a long time. He told me he felt the same way.
Then he moved back to the U.S., and after a few weeks he slowly started ghosting me. Leavin messages on seen/unseen, barely replying, and then eventually he removed me from Snapchat and Instagram and blocked me on WhatsApp. Tbh I was really hurt, but over time I moved on.
Now 11 months later, he suddenly called me out of nowhere sayin he missed me and is excited to see me because hes coming back to India again,(next week). He explained that after going back home, his family business was struggling, his mental health got bad, and he was dealing with harassment from another girlfriend (which shocked me because I didn’t even know he had another girlfriend while talking to me).
He says everything became chaotic and that’s why he disappeared.
Part of me wants to believe him because what we had felt real. Another part of me feels confused because he blocked me everywhere, never contacted me for 11 months and now suddenly hes back saying he misses me idk im so confused