Not your interest or your hobby, you do them because of who you are. Not what you do for living, you do them to sustain who you are. Not even the spiritual enquiry, you do it to detach your ego from your self.
I am asking who you are?
How do you feel when you spot a couple fighting? How would you reconnect with an old friend? What purpose would you give for it? When is it worthwhile to keep fighting for someone? What makes you look at someone and say "attractive"? Why do you think you are attracted to someone like that? What irrational reason could make you cry? What your political views and why?
That's what I'd be interested to know, this tells me who you are. This could potentially allow us to feel less lonely because thousand miles apart, yet you are able to acknowledge someone's existence and have yours in return.
Talking about interests can only go so far, let's talk about our existence. Frankly, it will take years to have this conversation in real. Online it is only a dm away.
If anyone cares, I am a man, single and turned 29 today. Open to talk to adults 20 to 100+