Quick thought - "You should try tinder bro"
A while ago my sister was telling me that i should get a professional photographer and try tinder. Kept telling me how good and "manly" i look. Got very frustrated with me not wanting to do it and said i have a bullshit attitude. Being the idiot that i am i did eventually try it after another cycle of looksmaxxing. Paid for the photographer she told me to, paid for gold like she told me to. And of course i got 0 matches like i always do and just ruines my self-esteem even harder. And my sister barely commented on it. Just said that i look fine to her and later pivoted to saying that i should learn to accept myself. Yet again, i failed at being attractive and failed at making my family take me seriously. But it's the last time, i finally give up